finally i decided to reconstruct and republish this blog...now that i've more time available with my pc...i tink its easier to get this habit of bloggin back...its been some time since i last wrote abt wat i'm tinkin of lately....my friends have been telling me not to " tink too much "...i answered..." its not that i want to tink too much...but there are too many things for me to tink abt..."...mayb next time if they happen2read my blog...they'll tell me dont have too many things instead....*crapz*
alot of bad things have happened lately...[gd things also happened]...dont really wanna ignore them but shldn i b tinkin less? things happenin ard me made me feel used n betrayed...truth n lies dont mixed well n yet some chose2use both to cre8 a story which neither display ample truth/lies...it only result in more mess...
mths ago Wtaught me something new...its abt ppl livin in a box...given a scene2describe....
" tom always have e habit of coming hm late at night...one day he wanted to borrow his dad's car for an outing...tom's dad knowing tt this is a chance to give tom a lesson thus set an impossible timing for tom to return the car....unknowingly tom agreed and indeed tom reached hm b4 the designated time...
now tt tom came home on time...tom's dad being unable to pick on "e late night" issue started to pick on things such as the car is dirty...tyres r worn...etc...tom started arguin with his dad and decided tt since whether r not he's back early or late, he'd going to be reprimanded anyway...he is going2b home late no matter wat..."
In this case both tom n his dad r ppl living in a box...both have given themselves excuses to justify wat they r doin is right and cont to do wat they want despite the fact tt the initiation of wat they r doing is wrong in e 1st place...
in tom's case...coming back hm late is wrong n yet he justified tt its ok to do so since no matter wat time he reaches hm he is going to b reprimanded anyway...
in tom's dad's case...knowing tt he shldn scold his son since he met his bargain by reaching hm on time...he justified tt its still ok to scold him as other things such as the cleaniness and condition of the car isnt tt gd...